人生的巅峰和成功真的这么重要吗?人生只是一个过程而已，成功的定义应该是不胆怯，不畏惧的去完成这一生自己喜欢的事，竭尽全力把它做好，做到自己无憾，而不是卯足力气削破脑袋让人生没有任何乐趣的活着，也不是把成功当做要比别人强比别人出色，而没有了自己。以下是学习啦小编分享的成功的定义，一起来和小编看看吧。
成功的定义
No search to the "late night dining room" to see today, to see an episode about a girl in karaoke singing, her songs are other singer song, her only song to write their own songs. Because she is not famous, so people do not care about what she sang, how long. Even so every day she was in the middle of the night to start singing, singing until morning, and then to the small restaurant to eat a bowl of rice in soy sauce.
In fact, such a story does not start any new ideas, such an unknown singer is also a lot of. And the little singer in this play has been the uncle of the restaurant help. He listened to her efforts and story, asked her to put her own poster to his shop to help her do publicity, told her to eat inside the restaurant often composer, she can ask someone else to write. She put the poster brought, she sang her song in a small restaurant, probably because of her hard work and efforts of her song is really nice, she made everyone to applaud her, composers also wrote her a song for her song.
Later she imperceptibly was getting red songs in major newspapers published a few weeks, all songs won the top position, she received a lot of media interviews, struggling back and forth in the big and small concert. This should be a happy ending. I don't know if this is a true story or drama writer's story, she fainted at a time before the show, check out to be suffering from cancer. The last time she went to a small restaurant, she wore a white sweater and a white hat.
The only constant is the first time she appeared in front of the lens of the bright and charming smile, the kind of smile seems to be temperature. She was a bowl of cat rice, eat in the open when the devout hold hands and say, I eat! She said, thank the boss, let her so lucky, and realized the dream of life. She disappeared from the restaurant when the boss turned to her to pour the wine she wanted...
When you read this story, you will find the story so cold ah. If this story happened on you and me, we will be holding the mentality of how? We will be grateful, complaint or regret? It makes me think of another problem, in our each person's life everybody may have dreams, goals. How is life a successful life?
Today, Q chat with friends, she asked me to do a thing to insist on really useful?!
I understand what she would like to ask, if she love writing that she is asked to write down, will there be a day to write the name; if she wants to rely on investment to make money, that is if you insist on learning investment knowledge, is not able to change investment experts; if she love painting draw down, will not have one day you can make money by painting to achieve their dream painter.
The answer is yes, I can. I'm a rookie of all kinds. I said I could, that's not what I said. The book is not to say that up to ten thousand hours, every day is 3 hours to draw attention to a certain field, after ten years to become an expert in the field, the book said that genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration to. But these are books, of course, there are many successful people have said such a thing ah.
These words, you believe it?
I'm not the whole letter.
Take that Edison's famous saying, there are a lot of people do not know the second half, genius is one percent inspiration, sweat of ninety-nine percent." But 1% of the inspiration is the most important, even more important than that of the sweat of the 99%." Regardless of this, but I think the "success" is always a comma, not a full stop. On the history of many investment experts can use their financial knowledge, in a very short period of time pours and riches, can also ruin everything in a failure, you say he was a success? And Li Kaifu he founded innovation works, he encouraged the hard-working students, even he even at the health of the body, then he had lymphoma left the post treatment begins, he wrote his book should be more concerned with physical ones, if he died he is successful?
Later I told friends said, the so-called success. I saw a such arrangement: to input to success, adventure, adventure, harvest, or investment, pleasure and wisdom is not successful, the pinnacle of life and success is really so important? Life is just a process, the definition of success should not be timid, not afraid to finish the life what you love to do, do it yourself, no regrets, not mustering the strength to break the head cut so that there is no life to live any fun, or not successful than others than others as well, but not their own.
Like the night in the dining room, the singer, she did what she likes, if life really happened to her unfortunate efforts, we are all ordinary people with a smile of gratitude to face everything.
I said, this kind of life is a successful life.
译文：
今天无意搜到了《深夜食堂》来看，看到有一集讲的是一个在歌厅唱歌的姑娘，她唱的歌多是别的歌手的歌，她自己唯有一曲自己写的歌。因为她没有名气，所以大家并不关心她唱了什么，唱了多久。即便如此她还是每天从深夜开始唱歌，唱到早上才出来，然后到剧中的小餐馆吃一碗酱油饭。
其实这样的一个故事开端没有任何新意，这样的不出名的歌手也很多。而这个剧里的小歌手却得到了餐馆大叔的帮助。他听了她的故事和努力，叫她把自己的海报带到他店里来帮她做宣传，还跟她说经常来餐馆的吃饭的里面有作曲家，她可以请别人帮忙写歌。她把海报带来了，她在小餐馆里唱着她的歌，大概是因为她的勤奋和努力她的歌确实很好听，大家听完都给她鼓掌，作曲家也给她写了一首适合她的歌。
后来不知不觉她就红了起来，新歌在各大报纸刊登，几周都蝉联歌曲榜首位置，她接受很多媒体的采访，疲于奔波于大大小小的演唱会。这应该是一个happy ending。我不知道这个剧是真人真事还是作者创作的故事，她在某一次演出前昏倒了，被检查出来患了癌症。她离开人世的最后一次去小餐馆，穿了一件白色的毛衣戴了一顶白色的帽子，脸色苍白。
唯一不变的是她第一次出现在镜头前那开朗迷人的笑容，那种笑似乎是有温度的。她还是点了一碗“猫饭”，在开吃时虔诚的合抱双手说，我开吃啦!她说，感谢老板，让她如此幸运，实现了人生的梦想。在老板转身给她去倒她想喝的酒的时候，她从小餐馆消失了。。。
当你读完这个小故事的时候，你会不会觉得这个故事特么的狗血啊。如果这个故事发生在你我身上，我们会是抱着怎样的心态呢?我们会感恩，抱怨还是遗憾呢?这让我想到了另一个问题，在我们每个人的一生中大家多多少少都有梦想啊，目标啊。那怎样人生才是成功的人生呢?
今天Q上跟好友聊天，她问我做一件事坚持真的有用吗?我说，有，一定有用!
我明白她想问的是什么，如果她喜欢写作那她就是在问坚持写作下去，会不会有一天写出名来;如果她想要靠投资赚钱，那就是如果坚持学习投资知识，是不是能变身投资专家;如果她喜欢画画坚持画下去，会不会有一天就可以靠画画赚钱实现自己的画家梦。
我答案是，能。我也是个各方面菜鸟的人。我说能吧，那是书里说的不是我说的。书里不是说凡是坚持一万小时，也就是每天抽出3小时来专注某个领域，十年后就能成为这个领域的专家，书里说天才是百分之一的灵感和百分之九十九的汗水而来的。可是这些都是书里来的，当然还有很多成功人士也说过这种话啊。
这些话，你信吗?
我不是全信。
就拿那句爱迪生的那句名言，还有后半句很多人不知道，“天才是百分之一的灵感，百分之九十九的汗水。”但那1%的灵感是最重要的，甚至比那99%的汗水都要重要。”且不论这个，但我觉得“成功”这个状态永远只是一个逗号，而不是一个句号。历史上很多靠投资专家可以应用自己的金融知识，在很短的时间内盆满钵满乃至暴富，也可以在某一次失败里倾家荡产一无所有，你说他是成功的吗?还有李开复他一手创办创新工场，他鼓励大学生勤奋努力，甚至连他自己都不惜身体的健康，后来他患了淋巴癌离开岗位开始治疗，他出书写下自己更应该关
